"I.Am.So.Official."-Nasihah (Tavasha Misundastood's 2 yr old daughter.) I had one of the most rewarding days yesterday. Not only did I spend time with my family, but we had a special visit from my girl, Tavasha Shannon (many of you know her as Misundastood). Allow me to share why this visit was so special. I observed my daughter, my neice, and Tavasha's daughter truly embracing eachother with love and compassion. They expressed their joy of being in eacother's presence with smiles, hugs, and even kisses. SUBHANALLAH, it was so genuine and pure. There was no anxiety between them. No jealousy or fear. It was pure love for one another. If only we adults can behave in the same manner, Subhanallah. Sure they're age range 13 months to 2 yrs play a major role, but how is it that instinctively they profess love and joy for one another at an age where they cant fully decipher wrong from right, yet as adults sometimes we treat eachother in the worst way? SOMETHINGS WRONG WITH THAT.
Yesterday my show proved that when we begin to join forces and align with our beautiful fellow creations (our fellow human beings), only greatness comes about which transcends those who witness it. Yesterday's show, Muslimah's in the media with Najmah53 (spotlight), Maureesah SheSoul Cherry (SpeakN Volumez ), and Tahirah Taalib-Din (The Tahirah Show), was one of the best shows I ever did because it defined what true love is about. True love for humanity is about coming together for the pleasure of ALLAH, putting aside all your differences, bringing to the table all your strenghts for a common cause. A GOOD CAUSE. AND ALHAMDULILLAH WE DID JUST THAT. The intent was fulfilled, to inspire our fellow muslimah's to step into their fierceness. We no longer have the luxury of time. We need eachother's help,support,love, and encouragement. Put aside your differences today and align with like minded people, because it's time to become part of the solutions and eventually eliminate the problems! UNITED WE STAND DIVIDED WE FALL. UMMAHTUL-WAHID, ONE NATION! WHO'S WITH ME?!
My name is Hujrah Wahhaj and I am your Personal/Life Coach.
Sunday, May 22, 2011
Friday, May 20, 2011
Do I have the right to SMILE?
Someone asked me if I had a right to smile today,
I mean "Why' they inquired am I always so happy,
always so vocal, compassionate and exhibiting light,
what makes me so passionate in replacing darkness with light.
I explained to her how could I not be,
being that Allah has given me everything,
has shown me His power and uncovered His Wisdom,
has brought me from darkness to light with grace and Perfection.
Why should I be unhappy, because of small tests that i'll endure,
when the price of Paradise is waiting at good deeds door,
and Allah's beautiful face is the most rewarding gift I could ever imagine,
If I could just get through this place of deception, desire, and immediate satisfaction.
Sure it could be tempting, we all fall short sometimes,
But at the end of it all suratul mustaqim is the only perfect line.
No, I cant risk it I say No to the forbidden,
No to satan,
and all his minions.
See, I love Allah
and I am extremely grateful for that,
and your sour face drowned in misery without rememberance of Allah,
only further proves that.
Allah is my source of happiness, so YES I do have a right to smile :)
I mean "Why' they inquired am I always so happy,
always so vocal, compassionate and exhibiting light,
what makes me so passionate in replacing darkness with light.
I explained to her how could I not be,
being that Allah has given me everything,
has shown me His power and uncovered His Wisdom,
has brought me from darkness to light with grace and Perfection.
Why should I be unhappy, because of small tests that i'll endure,
when the price of Paradise is waiting at good deeds door,
and Allah's beautiful face is the most rewarding gift I could ever imagine,
If I could just get through this place of deception, desire, and immediate satisfaction.
Sure it could be tempting, we all fall short sometimes,
But at the end of it all suratul mustaqim is the only perfect line.
No, I cant risk it I say No to the forbidden,
No to satan,
and all his minions.
See, I love Allah
and I am extremely grateful for that,
and your sour face drowned in misery without rememberance of Allah,
only further proves that.
Allah is my source of happiness, so YES I do have a right to smile :)
BEAUTIFUL LOVE LETTER WRITTEN TO ME
Sharing a love letter written to me:
Hujrah, I felt compelled to write you this love letter for I've been thinking about you for quite some time now and I must say, the total essence of who you are has consumed my world. You see Hujrah, all my life I've been searching for someone like you, inspirational, motivational, with incredible energy, sweet, genuine, compassionate about humanity, proactive in religious and worldy matters, a modern day female version of Malcolm x with style and pizazz. Hujrah, I understand you was brought to this particular place and time to carry out a mission and I fullheartedly give my unconditional support and encouragement to help you carry it out. I love you, everything about you. I love your good and bad traits, your strengths, your weaknesses, your flaws, I love it all. You are a dynamic person because not only do you run to forgive others you have finally learned to forgive yourself. Why you are so passionate about unleashing every single person's hidden potential, is beyond me. But I truly understand your drive and purpose.
I have to go now, but just know that from the bottom of my heart I love you, care for you, am grateful to be apart of your world. And as long as you keep Allah first and continue to strive to make a valuable contribution as you were born to do, I will continue to love, nourish, protect, and honor you.
Your Beloved,
Hujrah Wahhaj!!
YES, YOU READ IT RIGHT!!! I WROTE MYSELF A LOVE LETTER AND BOOOOOY DID IT FEEL GOOD!!! NOW, IT'S YOUR TURN! Fall in love with yourself all over again. Not out of conceit or arrogance but out of the love that Allah has created you with. Allah (God) has created you with love and Mercy. We on the other hand self sabotage, self hate, and self destroy causing us to lose site of our focus and purpose. Fall in love with yourself again. Reconnect with the Almighty Creator. It is there, that you will have clarity on your specific mission. We're all created to worship the Lord of the Worlds but our specific mission on how we as individuals will carry that out is different, tailor-made-to-fit. I love you. I am here for you and with you. I'm cheering for you even when you're destroying yourself!
My Name is Hujrah Wahhaj and I am your Personal Relationship Development Coach. For more inspiring articles that will add value and quality to your life visit hujrahwahhaj.com. Your Personal Relationship Development Coach.
Hujrah, I felt compelled to write you this love letter for I've been thinking about you for quite some time now and I must say, the total essence of who you are has consumed my world. You see Hujrah, all my life I've been searching for someone like you, inspirational, motivational, with incredible energy, sweet, genuine, compassionate about humanity, proactive in religious and worldy matters, a modern day female version of Malcolm x with style and pizazz. Hujrah, I understand you was brought to this particular place and time to carry out a mission and I fullheartedly give my unconditional support and encouragement to help you carry it out. I love you, everything about you. I love your good and bad traits, your strengths, your weaknesses, your flaws, I love it all. You are a dynamic person because not only do you run to forgive others you have finally learned to forgive yourself. Why you are so passionate about unleashing every single person's hidden potential, is beyond me. But I truly understand your drive and purpose.
I have to go now, but just know that from the bottom of my heart I love you, care for you, am grateful to be apart of your world. And as long as you keep Allah first and continue to strive to make a valuable contribution as you were born to do, I will continue to love, nourish, protect, and honor you.
Your Beloved,
Hujrah Wahhaj!!
YES, YOU READ IT RIGHT!!! I WROTE MYSELF A LOVE LETTER AND BOOOOOY DID IT FEEL GOOD!!! NOW, IT'S YOUR TURN! Fall in love with yourself all over again. Not out of conceit or arrogance but out of the love that Allah has created you with. Allah (God) has created you with love and Mercy. We on the other hand self sabotage, self hate, and self destroy causing us to lose site of our focus and purpose. Fall in love with yourself again. Reconnect with the Almighty Creator. It is there, that you will have clarity on your specific mission. We're all created to worship the Lord of the Worlds but our specific mission on how we as individuals will carry that out is different, tailor-made-to-fit. I love you. I am here for you and with you. I'm cheering for you even when you're destroying yourself!
My Name is Hujrah Wahhaj and I am your Personal Relationship Development Coach. For more inspiring articles that will add value and quality to your life visit hujrahwahhaj.com. Your Personal Relationship Development Coach.
Saturday, May 14, 2011
Do Your Best The First Time
"Do more than exist, live. Do more than touch, feel. Do more than look, observe. Do more than read, absorb. Do more than hear, listen. Do more than listen, understand. Do more than think, ponder. Do more than talk, say something."-John H. Rhoades
During a morning conference call a listener chimed in and said that he was attending a seminar with a dynamic motivational speaker. The speaker asked the audience members to raise their hands, and the audience members did so. Then the speaker said No, I want you guys to rise out of your seats, jump up & down and enthusiastically reach for the skies and raise your hands. So the audience members did just that. The room was overwhelmed with the audience members jumping and down with excitement, reaching to the skies. So the speaker says,"Now why is it that someone else has to tell you to do your best?" Do your best the first time because sometimes that's the only chance you'll get.
This was profound. Isn't it true? We Do seek permission to do our best don't we? Someone else has to be a pioneer in order for us to bring out our greatness? Why are we afraid? We have leadership skills and different viewpoints yet we follow the group to fit in.
A famous author once said "How long will you keep banging your head against the wall before you realize the door is unlocked"? We no longer have the luxury of time. Do your best the first time because sometimes that's the only chance you'll get.
"Good, better, best, Never ever ever rest, until your good becomes your better and your better becomes your best."-Go Rich Mom
Here's to doing our BEST. Who's with me?!! For more inspiring articles that will add value and quality to your life visit hujrahwahhaj.com. Your Personal Relationship Development Coach.
During a morning conference call a listener chimed in and said that he was attending a seminar with a dynamic motivational speaker. The speaker asked the audience members to raise their hands, and the audience members did so. Then the speaker said No, I want you guys to rise out of your seats, jump up & down and enthusiastically reach for the skies and raise your hands. So the audience members did just that. The room was overwhelmed with the audience members jumping and down with excitement, reaching to the skies. So the speaker says,"Now why is it that someone else has to tell you to do your best?" Do your best the first time because sometimes that's the only chance you'll get.
This was profound. Isn't it true? We Do seek permission to do our best don't we? Someone else has to be a pioneer in order for us to bring out our greatness? Why are we afraid? We have leadership skills and different viewpoints yet we follow the group to fit in.
A famous author once said "How long will you keep banging your head against the wall before you realize the door is unlocked"? We no longer have the luxury of time. Do your best the first time because sometimes that's the only chance you'll get.
"Good, better, best, Never ever ever rest, until your good becomes your better and your better becomes your best."-Go Rich Mom
Here's to doing our BEST. Who's with me?!! For more inspiring articles that will add value and quality to your life visit hujrahwahhaj.com. Your Personal Relationship Development Coach.
Sunday, May 1, 2011
RANCOR IN YOUR HEART?
May peace be unto you,
My Dear Friends, Please allow me to share some advice with you. If there's one thing that I can suggest you begin to work on is your heart. Your heart is the very essence of who you are. It holds the keys to your complete being on a physical, spiritual, and emotional level. Ras (swa) says there is a piece of flesh that if it is corrupted the entire body is corrupted and this piece of flesh is the heart. Ras (swa) also states that Allah (GOD) will not change your condition until you change what's in your heart.
If you find your heart full of rancor, displeasure, jealousy and envy you need major reconstruction heart surgery. You need to first examine your heart, check for all flaws, then acknowledge exactly what's wrong with it. Once you've done this you will find the next steps a little easier. You will have to go back and forgive others who may have did you wrong. You will have to learn to forgive yourself and treat EVERY part of the creation with love and compassion.
You see, when you hold rancor in heart you not only miss out on life's blessings, but you actually stop your blessings from coming to you. For example, because of your hurts and wounds you hear of someone else's good news and instead of being happy for them you are full of jealousy and rage and put what's called the 'Evil Eye' (Placing a serious burden on another which leads them to some type of affliction because of your jealousy)on him. This very act of jealousy & envy robs you of happiness, blessings and adundance waiting for you. Believe it or not, it actually eats up your good deeds as Ras (swa) warns to stay away from jealousy and envy because it burns up your good deeds like fire to cotton.
I had the 'pleasure' (humor) of experiencing this type of evil eye yesterday after sharing a beautiful blessing in my life. I recognized it right away because all the signs were there. I forgive who ever did it because I'm not worth anyone losing their good deeds. Let's work on our hearts, because you have so much out there waiting for your!! Let's all go get it TOGETHER!!! WE CAN DO IT!! LET'S BEGIN TO CHANGE OUR HEARTS TODAY!! WHO'S WITH ME?? For more inspiring articles that will add value and quality to your life visit hujrahwahhaj.com. Your Personal Relationship Development Coach.
My Dear Friends, Please allow me to share some advice with you. If there's one thing that I can suggest you begin to work on is your heart. Your heart is the very essence of who you are. It holds the keys to your complete being on a physical, spiritual, and emotional level. Ras (swa) says there is a piece of flesh that if it is corrupted the entire body is corrupted and this piece of flesh is the heart. Ras (swa) also states that Allah (GOD) will not change your condition until you change what's in your heart.
If you find your heart full of rancor, displeasure, jealousy and envy you need major reconstruction heart surgery. You need to first examine your heart, check for all flaws, then acknowledge exactly what's wrong with it. Once you've done this you will find the next steps a little easier. You will have to go back and forgive others who may have did you wrong. You will have to learn to forgive yourself and treat EVERY part of the creation with love and compassion.
You see, when you hold rancor in heart you not only miss out on life's blessings, but you actually stop your blessings from coming to you. For example, because of your hurts and wounds you hear of someone else's good news and instead of being happy for them you are full of jealousy and rage and put what's called the 'Evil Eye' (Placing a serious burden on another which leads them to some type of affliction because of your jealousy)on him. This very act of jealousy & envy robs you of happiness, blessings and adundance waiting for you. Believe it or not, it actually eats up your good deeds as Ras (swa) warns to stay away from jealousy and envy because it burns up your good deeds like fire to cotton.
I had the 'pleasure' (humor) of experiencing this type of evil eye yesterday after sharing a beautiful blessing in my life. I recognized it right away because all the signs were there. I forgive who ever did it because I'm not worth anyone losing their good deeds. Let's work on our hearts, because you have so much out there waiting for your!! Let's all go get it TOGETHER!!! WE CAN DO IT!! LET'S BEGIN TO CHANGE OUR HEARTS TODAY!! WHO'S WITH ME?? For more inspiring articles that will add value and quality to your life visit hujrahwahhaj.com. Your Personal Relationship Development Coach.
Thursday, April 21, 2011
Happiness=Harmony
"Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony"-Gandhi.
You have a RIGHT to find your place on Earth. You have the RESPONSIBILITY to find your passion, purpose, and authentic true self. Are you finding it impossible to transform your goals from the paper you wrote them on to a reality in your life? Check your thoughts, your words, and your actions. If you are living in conflict, doubt, madness or any other imbalanced state, you are not in harmony with your ultimate self. You will continue to reap what you are sewing. THE GOOD NEWS is YOU are the only one blocking yourself from the abundance, joy, pleasure, good that life has to bring you.
Let me share a story with you. Last night I was speaking to a 22 yr old female who is on her journey of finding her purpose. She told me that her barrier is she has self defeating thoughts which leads to self sabotaging habits. She's unhappy with her present situation and feels stuck because she can't seem to get out of it. We talked and talked and talked until she understood that success, achievements, accomplishments of any kind all begin in the mind, understanding that what you think is what will be. I told her most successful people maintain that their success began with just a positive thought. I told her to do daily affirmations and combat negative self destructing thoughts with self loving and positive ones. Well, at about 10:00 p.m. last night she called me excited to inform me that she did this from the moment our conversation finished and found immediate results. She said she needed two things to happen in 24 hrs in order for her to make a specific move. She said she had no idea how it was going to happen, but after our conversation she opened her heart to positive thoughts. Just then, not only the two things happened for her but two additional things happened for her!! Yes, she had four blessings happen for her, which was unbelievable!! She was so excited sharing this with me!! She said she realized it was God's will that these 4 things were written for her but she realized her part was to open herself up to it. She tells me the best part of it all is that God allowed her to see her hand in it all.
IT WORKS!!!IT STARTS IN YOUR MIND!! MAKE SURE THAT FROM TODAY YOUR THOUGHTS, WORDS, AND ACTIONS ARE IN HARMONY, THEN YOU WILL BEGIN TO LIVE. I AM HUJRAH WAHHAJ AND I AM YOUR LIFE COACH!!! TRY IT.......AND WHEN IT WORKS PLEASE POST HERE TO SHARE WITH ME YOUR RESULTS!!!!
You have a RIGHT to find your place on Earth. You have the RESPONSIBILITY to find your passion, purpose, and authentic true self. Are you finding it impossible to transform your goals from the paper you wrote them on to a reality in your life? Check your thoughts, your words, and your actions. If you are living in conflict, doubt, madness or any other imbalanced state, you are not in harmony with your ultimate self. You will continue to reap what you are sewing. THE GOOD NEWS is YOU are the only one blocking yourself from the abundance, joy, pleasure, good that life has to bring you.
Let me share a story with you. Last night I was speaking to a 22 yr old female who is on her journey of finding her purpose. She told me that her barrier is she has self defeating thoughts which leads to self sabotaging habits. She's unhappy with her present situation and feels stuck because she can't seem to get out of it. We talked and talked and talked until she understood that success, achievements, accomplishments of any kind all begin in the mind, understanding that what you think is what will be. I told her most successful people maintain that their success began with just a positive thought. I told her to do daily affirmations and combat negative self destructing thoughts with self loving and positive ones. Well, at about 10:00 p.m. last night she called me excited to inform me that she did this from the moment our conversation finished and found immediate results. She said she needed two things to happen in 24 hrs in order for her to make a specific move. She said she had no idea how it was going to happen, but after our conversation she opened her heart to positive thoughts. Just then, not only the two things happened for her but two additional things happened for her!! Yes, she had four blessings happen for her, which was unbelievable!! She was so excited sharing this with me!! She said she realized it was God's will that these 4 things were written for her but she realized her part was to open herself up to it. She tells me the best part of it all is that God allowed her to see her hand in it all.
IT WORKS!!!IT STARTS IN YOUR MIND!! MAKE SURE THAT FROM TODAY YOUR THOUGHTS, WORDS, AND ACTIONS ARE IN HARMONY, THEN YOU WILL BEGIN TO LIVE. I AM HUJRAH WAHHAJ AND I AM YOUR LIFE COACH!!! TRY IT.......AND WHEN IT WORKS PLEASE POST HERE TO SHARE WITH ME YOUR RESULTS!!!!
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
CHANGE, GROW, READ, LEARN!
"To do the same thing Over & Over again and expect a different outcome is insanity"-Millionaire Joe (Billionaire master mind forum). If you don't like who you were yesterday and you're the same today, keep at it for you will surely be the same tomorrow. CHANGE, GROW, READ, LEARN, beause to Not.... is way too risky.
Ras (swa) says, for a believer no two days are the same. If you find you are the same person you was 5 years ago, in the same circle, doing the same thing, THERE'S SOMETHING SERIOUSLY WRONG.
We all have hopes, dreams, goals, and aspirations. Studies show that only 1 out of 100 people with great ideas will pursue it, and remember, a great idea is only 5% of success, the remainder is the work.
If you find yourself ready for change, ready to move in a different direction, ready to embrace all the abundance waiting for you, GREAT, now get moving! Begin connecting with likeminded people,those who've been there and done that. Dont hang with lames, because if you do you will learn to limp. Surround yourself with people who have accomplished what you want. If you're on a quest for longevity in your marriage then find mentors who have healthy, long lasting, successful, productive marriages. If you want to become a millionaire find mentors who are billionaires! If you want a strong connection to the Almighty Creator of the Universe, find mentors who not only study The Creator but implement their studies in their daily lives. Oprah Winfrey says "we are not meant to be alone. To think you are just that great and can accomplish it all without help, is wrong. We all need help." So why not surround yourself with people who are of benefit?
The worst thing you can do is have regrets in your life, but imagine having regrets in your death. "Try to live your life in a way that you will not regret years of useless virtue and inertia and timidity"-Maya Angelou. When you get stuck, because you will sometimes, just move. Do something. Do something different, but just move. Dont stay in the same position because you surely will receive the same results. LIVE TODAY.....WHILE YOU STILL CAN.....THE CLOCK IS TICKING!
Ras (swa) says, for a believer no two days are the same. If you find you are the same person you was 5 years ago, in the same circle, doing the same thing, THERE'S SOMETHING SERIOUSLY WRONG.
We all have hopes, dreams, goals, and aspirations. Studies show that only 1 out of 100 people with great ideas will pursue it, and remember, a great idea is only 5% of success, the remainder is the work.
If you find yourself ready for change, ready to move in a different direction, ready to embrace all the abundance waiting for you, GREAT, now get moving! Begin connecting with likeminded people,those who've been there and done that. Dont hang with lames, because if you do you will learn to limp. Surround yourself with people who have accomplished what you want. If you're on a quest for longevity in your marriage then find mentors who have healthy, long lasting, successful, productive marriages. If you want to become a millionaire find mentors who are billionaires! If you want a strong connection to the Almighty Creator of the Universe, find mentors who not only study The Creator but implement their studies in their daily lives. Oprah Winfrey says "we are not meant to be alone. To think you are just that great and can accomplish it all without help, is wrong. We all need help." So why not surround yourself with people who are of benefit?
The worst thing you can do is have regrets in your life, but imagine having regrets in your death. "Try to live your life in a way that you will not regret years of useless virtue and inertia and timidity"-Maya Angelou. When you get stuck, because you will sometimes, just move. Do something. Do something different, but just move. Dont stay in the same position because you surely will receive the same results. LIVE TODAY.....WHILE YOU STILL CAN.....THE CLOCK IS TICKING!
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