My Speech in L.A.

What an amazing time I had in L.A. with my dad. I had no idea that living my passion would be this fun! I was born to do this and I am so Grateful to The Creator for choosing me to do this work!

This is the speech I did at The Seerah Council in Los Angeles, Ca. Enjoy!

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I Just Don't Care

I just don’t care. Why do we procrastinate? What it is about that to do list that makes us wait to the very last minute? Why do the majority of people procrastinate? The number one reason is simply because we don’t care. We’re not excited about the task or goal at hand. We’re not excited enough about it to lose sleep over or jump out of our bed. Life is happening to us and we’re just reluctantly going along. Now don’t get me wrong, there are everyday mundane things we must do that won’t excite us like ironing clothes or studying for an upcoming exam. However, if we simply change the meaning we attach to the goal (ie, give your goals a meaning you care about) you will do it more excitingly and live life with more juice. Reasons For Procrastinating: Ironing clothes is boring but if you’re launching a major project that you’ve worked so hard on, or you’re about to catch a flight to a Hawaiian vacation you’ve been looking forward to all year, ironing clothes will be a total different experience. Studying for an exam on a subject that intrigues you so much you won’t want to put the textbook down will deliver a different experience than studying some boring required subject you’ll probably never use again. It’s the experiences we live and work for. The bottom line is most of us are not living a life with juice. We stagnate, drag, and barely make it through the day because we just don’t care about what we’re doing. We find that we must do what needs to get done, reluctantly and our experiences are joyless and for some, full of regret. Two more common reasons we procrastinate are fear and a lack of knowledge of how to get “there.” As for fear, everyone at some point in their lives face fear. Whether it's fear of success or failure the secret is the top successful people has figured out a way, or paid someone, to show them how to move in spite of fear. That’s it. That’s the big mystery solved. The fear you have of failure, success, or the unknown never truly dissipates. You just need to learn how to manage it well enough so that it does not stop you or your visions, and certainly not your mission. As for not knowing how to get “there”, I’d like to propose a question. If I asked you the quickest way to get to Egypt and you’ve never been there could you give me an accurate answer? Of course not. Guessing would be a waste of time so the best thing to do is to equip yourself with a map or compass ie, people with experience such as mentors, life coaches, or guidance counselors, parents, or friends that will hold you accountable for your actions and encourage you to propel forward regardless of what your circumstances look like today. The bottom line is you have to live for yourself. You must decide to walk down your path. Find true meaning and purpose for your life and goals, purify your intentions, equip yourself with a good map and proper guidance, take action today even if it's just a step, and surround yourself with people who will hold you accountable when you need it the most and cheer you on until the end! Life will begin to look different for you as it has for so many people before you struggling through the same test and you will find that you will begin accomplishing goals way before they are almost due! Procrastination is the anti-Best You! For more inspiring articles subscribe to my FREE newsletter at Hujrahwahhaj.com and be sure to like The Hujrah Wahhaj T.V. Show's fanpage at https://www.facebook.com/hujrahwahhajshow

What is it about her that when she enters a room it seems as if she brings the Sunlight with her? It’s something about her that’s unique, refreshing and almost mesmerizing. She leaves people around her in awe and good wherever she goes. She is a powerful and influential woman and here are her traits. 1) She resides in love. Love is the foundation holding the bricks of her world together. She genuinely loves people. She makes everyone feel great and special because she sees their light, potential and role in the bigger scheme of life. She goes out of her way to project love for humanity organically and this synergy fuels her allowing her to give even more of herself. She is a portal of love and uses it to heal wounds and inspire new life. 2) Her wisdom reaches way beyond her years. Because she loves new information and is constantly looking for inspiration she absorbs everything she learns and regurgitates it almost immediately after receiving it. It’s very important she plays her role in making sure the world around her is equipped with powerful tools to become the absolute best they can. She teaches and everyone listens because her passion for helping others transcends all that she does. 3) Her optimism is one to be desired. People are drawn to her positive disposition which is infectious. She has the ability to instantly transform people’s emotional state by showing them alternate routes to handle their situations. She leaves others with a new found hope by empowering them with a sense of choice and determination. She has an “I can do it” and “you can do it too” attitude regardless of circumstances and people love that about her. 4) Time is of the essence. She’s on the go. You rarely find her just lounging around twiddling her thumbs because she knows there’s always room for improvement, investment, and achievement. She has no patience for time wasters and encourages better time management for herself and others. 5) She’s charismatic by nature. There are many components about her that stand out which make it hard for people to determine what it is about her that draws them in. She has an inner light that glows and grows and inspires the inner light in others to follow suit. Vibrant, for no one reason, people become like moths flocking to the light. 6) She does not think twice about helping. She’s an opportunist when it comes to piling up good deeds. She doesn’t know what deed will be the deed that lands her the ultimate reward of gaining honor from the Creator above. She knows He’s always watching and helping others is a sure way that will lead her closer to His love and her success. If she can do it’s no question that she will. Helping is as sentimental as a baby. 7) She accepts her flaws making it easy to accept others, so forgiveness is a very natural trait. She feels very good forgiving people because she knows with conviction that Mercy is destined for those who show Mercy. She runs to forgive others and when she struggles to forgive, it’s because she’s low on her spirituality barometer. Harsh and unforgiving people is one her pet peeves. 8) The Final trait of powerful and influential women is her humility. She lives in her power and accepts the role she has to play but she knows without a shadow of a doubt if she ever for once think that everything in her life is attributed to her and not God, she is destined to be doomed. She makes sure she keeps herself humble by praising The creator much and by not letting her blessings inflate her head. It is her humility that makes her even more influential because in essence she’s just a vessel of love, help, healing, and inspiring. The root of her joy, success, life is God and she never wants to take false credit. It’s Him helping her to do His healing and she’s grateful to be apart of it! May you have better traits than this and May your world be full or purpose joy and light. For more FREE inspiring articles visit my website at http://hujrahwahhaj.com/ and https://www.facebook.com/hujrahwahhajshow.

Photo Recap of some of what I've been up to.

The Hujrah Wahhaj Show Promo

I was so excited when my Television show The Hujrah Wahhaj show debuted. It was once a dream, now it is a reality, My reality! Please know that what you may be facing right now is not your destiny. It is simply a time in passing that must occur in order for you to reach your highest potential. Life can be unfair, frustrating, and down right devastating sometimes but it also can be fun, purpose-filled, and passionate if you CHOOSE.  The most important thing to remember is that the common denominator in all your life's circumstances is you. You have the choice to change WHEN you decide it changes. Isn't is about time you make the decision to stop settling and turn it up 1000%? Well I say yes! I say yes to your life and all your future possibilities. I say yes with you and for you.

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I'm officially a Published Author!

FINALLY FINISHED!! MASHALLAH!! After extensive interviews, editing, re-editing, sleepless nights, lots of peanut butter and jelly sandwiches I'm proud of the finished product!! I just became a published author Mashallah. My book "How To Love A Muslim Man:100 Interviews with 100 Muslim Man is available on amazon.com. Subhanallah. My mother's excitement about this book has me feeling good. She said she's inspired to finally write her book. Her favorite interviewee in the book was interviewee number 2 (you'll have to purchase it to find out) :) All of you who pre-ordered, thank you soooo much for your support. Be sure to subscribe to my newsletters at www.hujrahwahhaj.com to see when I'll be touring your city, making appearances, doing book tours, discounts on products, and more awesome articles. Get the word out and thank you for your undying support!!!!! Hujrah Wahhaj steps into a fascinating new realm in her book, “How To Love A Muslim Man: 100 Interviews with 100 Muslim Men.” Tired of the many failing marriages, broken homes, and broken hearts, Hujrah delves into the hearts and minds of Muslim Men from all around the globe representing various ethnic backgrounds, social classes, and professions, including Scholars, Imams, doctors, lawyers, students, blue collar workers, 2 politicians, and more to ask them what they really want in a mate. After extensive interviews, Hujrah reveals what she has discovered about The Psychology of Muslim Men, combines it with Quran and Sunnah, and offers her audience both insight and advice to get their marriages back on track. Groundbreaking and empowering, “How To Love A Muslim Man” is the first book of it’s kind and is a must-read for anyone who seeks to comprehend the complexities of how to love a Muslim Man. http://www.amazon.com/How-Love-Muslim-Man-ebook/dp/B00928XZU8/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1346017004&sr=8-1&keywords=hujrah+wahhaj

It's not too late, I promise.

I want to ask you a serious question, because until we answer this question with all honesty few things will change. Do you honestly feel that you deserve happiness, the best relationship with your Lord, success, good health, a loving and supportive relationship with your spouse, and all the good extended to you in this world and the next? Don't answer with your tongue, that won't be real. Rather, answer this question with your daily actions. What are your daily thoughts and actions saying about you? You make two decisions every day. Either you walk towards, or away from the areas I mentioned. Most people do not move into action because of fear, lack of belief that they deserve better, and a poor mindset. (I know, Alhamdulillah I can officially say I used to be one of them, the journey continues).
Your thoughts create a feeling in your body and your actions are contingent upon your feelings. Most humans like to feel good. So why not attach really good feelings (change the meaning of your life, purpose, time, relationships via hujrahwahhaj.com) to all that you do? Try it, next time you pray, place yourself in a high gratitude, privileged, and honored state, because you realize kneeling before your Lord is the Most Honorable daily act you are given the privilege to perform. Not until your body feels really good praying will you get the optimum benefit of your prayer, thus making you consciously and subconsciously want more of it. (It's unlikely for any human to accomplish this state in every prayer, however it behooves us to try).
When you're with your spouse what do you feel physically? When you are in a room with him/her, or perhaps speaking on the phone does your body become tense and stressed? If so, you’ve probably attached a horrible meaning to your relationship and I'm in no way shape or form questioning the legitimacy of where it stems from (you or your mate). I am suggesting you take back the sweetness of your marriage and begin recognizing what meaning you are placing on your relationship, what results are being produced, and how that is serving you (benefitting you or not). If you really want to be happier in your marriage you must absolutely stop pointing the fingers, and start pouring into yourself. The more you develop and grow, and the happier you become from within, your spouse will have to join the bandwagon or bail out. Complaining for years upon years about why your spouse makes you miserable will not change your circumstances it will only drain you and everyone you complain to. Be honest with yourself. Be grateful for all the good traits in your spouse so God can bless you with their great traits. Why would the Lord bless a person to become a MILLIONAIRE if he complains about his current salary. His salary is the blessing and until he appreciates it and uses it as a vehicle to reach his goal, he will always remain at the start button. I promise it's not too late my dear soul to change your mindset, clean out your hearts, change your perception of life and watch what The Creator does for you. Brought to you by a segment I'm writing for The Hujrah Wahhaj Show :) For more FREE inspiring articles that will add value and quality to your life visit http://hujrahwahhaj.com/ and https://www.facebook.com/hujrahwahhajshow.